Partner Henry D. Messer

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23248 Bonair St, Dearborn Heights, MI 48127

Carl Alan House (April 4, 1929 - May 16, 2021) was born on Thursday, April 4, 1929, in Coffeyville, Kansas, son of Hubert H. House and Viola Ross. During Carl's teenage years, the family moved to New Mexico. Carl embraced life to the fullest. From early road trips, railway tours to transatlantic crossings on the Queen Mary and QEII - all for wonderful adventures. After an honorable discharge from the United States Army, Carl resided in New York with his partner, Henry D. Messer. Both enjoyed the many cultural events in the city, especially the Metropolitan Opera. Weekends at their summer vacation home on Fire Island were included in their busy schedules. Carl was well read and extremely knowledgeable on a vast number of subjects. Although his management and maintenance responsibilities for his rental properties were time consuming, his day began with the New York Times crossword puzzle which he would complete in ink in thirty minutes or less. As an avid collector, Carl frequented antique shops, second-hand bookstores, and engaged in extensive research for specific treasures to add to his multiple collections. Carl had a special fondness for ocean liner memorabilia, particularly the Normandy. After retiring and a move to Michigan, Carl and Henry enjoyed travel abroad, museums, concerts and summers at their Fire Island home. Carl and his brother shared a life-long passion for classic automobiles, and Carl's dream of owning one came true in later years when he acquired his own classic 1936 K, V-12 Lincoln LeBaron Coupe.

Carl House, age 92, died peacefully at his home on May 16, 2021. He was predeceased by his life-time partner Henry Messer.


Early black and white photo of Dr. Henry D. Messer (right) and partner Carl House (left) on the beach. Photo and rights donated to Equality Michigan by the Henry D. Messer estate in 2014.


Dr. Henry D. Messer (right) and partner Carl House (left) on the beach. Photo and rights donated to Equality Michigan by the Henry D. Messer estate in 2014.


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