Queer Places:
Westlawn Cemetery Wayne, Wayne County, Michigan, USA, Plot Section F
Charles M. Durham (October 27, 1947 - July 18, 1986) was born in Georgia on Oct. 27, 1947 and died in San Francisco on
Jul. 18, 1986. His family moved to Detroit early in life. He served with the
U.S. Coast Guard and lived in Chicago before moving to San Francisco in the
mid-1970s.
He was a "leather man" in the "old guard" tradition. He was
an early member of the "15 Association" and served for three years as it's
chairman. He was also a member of the Barbary Coasters Motorcycle Club.
immensely popular and outgoing, he made friends very easily. He was at once
funny, irreverent and always in good spirits.
Charles was a caring
social worker and dedicated to his work. He quietly was holding on to
depression and one Sunday went to his favorite bar, ordered a drink, called
for a taxi and asked to be taken to Marin County. Half way across the Golden
Gate Bridge, he had the taxi stop, he got out and ran over to the rail and
jumped. His friends and co-workers were left stunned because this man
personified optimism, a sense of humor and confidence.
He was survived
by his mother Madeline, his partners Warren and Bill, his former partner
michel de la Roche, his close friends Robert, Dolores and Duane. There was a
celebration of his life at the "S.F. Eagle" on August 2nd, 1986.
In 1988, Fred Vaselenak and his slave michel de la Roche founded the first chapter of Masters and slaves Together (MAsT) in San Francisco. MAsT was founded as a support group for gay men living in Master/slave relationships. Slave michel de La Roche died in 1994.
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